Spring AI VectorStoreChatMemoryAdvisor builder class should have additional methods to set all properties

Currently, order and other properties are not able to be set by the builder. We should deprecate most of the current constructors and use the builder.

Comment From: ogbozoyan

Agree with you. Builder a much prettier approach

Comment From: ogbozoyan

@markpollack could you review please, may be some constructors shouldn't be deprecate