Redis add a self hosted test runner that uses --large-memeory flag

These tests added in #9357 will not be executed otherwise.

p.s. it may be a good idea to use that opportunity to add violations.tcl to that group then.

Comment From: yossigo

@oranagra I think this might also be a good opportunity to run an arm64 daily natively.

Comment From: oranagra

note another related CI chore: #10214